Candy Spelling left her granddaughter Stella McDermott high and dry on her 1st birthday this past weekend after she RSVPed, but then decided not to go to her party at the last minute.

According to sources close to Candy, she just wasn’t comfortable meeting her granddaughter in front of Oxygen network reality show cameras, which she was told would be present at the event.

Tori’s camp is claiming that Candy was told about the cameras in advance, but that she had chosen to RSVP regardless. An hour before the start of the party however, Candy sent Tori an email declining the invitation. Tori reportedly did not receive the email until after the party. 

Candy, who has been feuding with her daughter Tori for years, had recently been complaining to the media that she had never been invited to meet Tori’s new baby.