Now that the divorce papers have been filed and LeAnn Rimes and Eddie Cibrian have gone public with their affair, their exes are reportedly making friends with one another to share sob stories about their cheating spouses.

US Weekly says that LeAnn’s gay husband Dean Sheremet and Eddie’s media whore wife Brandi Glanville are now working together to figure out how they both managed to not notice their spouses sneaking out regularly for romantic meals and hotel slut romps.

New BFFs Brandi and Dean are also spending their time together to cry and vent while their spouses vacation in Cabo.