Jon Gosselin was spotted showing up at his arbitration hearing over the weekend with a bouquet of roses for Kate (to apologize for ruining her life?).

The effort was apparently unsuccessful, as Kate was seen leaving the Pennsylvania courthouse after the meeting without the flowers.

The couple met on Saturday to discuss custody of their eight kids and the division of their assets.

The arbitrator will likely make a ruling within 30 days, which will finalize the ex-couple’s divorce.